I had the saddest news yesterday. My dear friend Gina (tattinggoddess) died on Monday.
Gina and I met online many years ago and I enjoyed her wonderful friendship. We gossiped and exchanged ideas and eventually met at one of the early Palmetto Tat Days. We didn't always agree on everything and she was always a calming influence when I got my knickers in a twist about things.
One year she and I met in Tennessee and she took me down to Tat Days and gave me a lift back to Cincinnati afterwards. What a wonderful time I spent with her that weekend. We met again a few years ago when she and Gale 'kidnapped' me for a day in Cincinnati.
Last July we met once more when she drove all the way from Lafayette to Cincinnati to spend a day with me again. We hunkered down in her motel room after lunch and just talked and talked tatting!!! She gave me the sweetest little RPL bell which you can see below. She showed me lots of her work too which she kept in very well organised folders. A wonderful afternoon. This is the only photo either of us took where she has the backdrop of sunflowers. That to me sums her up.
Last September she hadn't appeared in my inbox for a few days so I sent her a message to say she was 'too quiet'. She replied with the news about her fall at work and the subsequent finding of the cancer in her lung. I went through that dreadful journey with her. The down days and the good days. The days when sleep was all she wanted and the days when she moved stuff round the house in her ongoing attempt to 'tidy things up'. Sadly her new curtains will never be made now.
Sometimes she'd be up in the middle of 'her' night and would release comments on her blog which would land up in my inbox. I'd hit reply to tell her to go back to bed. That always amused her. She was SO brave and SO positive and finally a few weeks ago came the good news - she was in remission.
Things were looking good a few weeks ago and Gina offered to test tat the goat for me. I thought everything was going really well - and then ..........
Gina, I'll miss you SO, SO much. My time in tat land will never be the same without you to gossip and giggle with.